Letting Go to Make Space




Sometimes, we hold on too tightly to something we think we want or believe is good for us. When that happens, it’s easy to see only what we want to see—because it looks so perfect—rather than allowing ourselves to shift perspective and let go.

I've recently had to do that in a few areas of my life.

One that stands out the most is my workplace. I don’t own the business, but I see so many areas where we could improve. For a while, I kept pushing my ideas onto the owner, imagining she’d appreciate a fresh perspective and want to grow her business. But she doesn’t. And for a bit, that hurt. I felt undervalued, even judged negatively, and I started wondering how I could keep working there.

But I love what I do, and I love our clientele. So instead of holding onto that hurt perspective—using it to protect myself or villainize her—I’ve decided to let it go completely. I’m no longer trying to control this situation; instead, I’ll observe and allow myself to thrive where I can.

That doesn’t mean I’m shutting down my desire for more, but I recognize that this may not be the right place for that kind of growth. And that’s okay. I just need to redirect my energy elsewhere.

So instead of forcing something that isn’t meant to grow here, I’m choosing to put my energy where it can grow. And maybe that’s the real lesson—sometimes, letting go isn’t giving up; it’s just making space for something better.


Two songs I was listening to before writing this blog were:

1. Stop Draggin My Heart Around by Stevie Nix

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=XeyjEWIDJ5Q&si=q_TI3QGA-enJDtr9

2. Fly by Sugar Ray covered by Mt. Pleasant

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=yyTeLSC1qHM&si=PFZNyzc1oL6OKxlW

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